XXFactored Jan2011: First Dates, Rapists, Chauvinism & Break-up Sales
It’s been a gritty month here at XXFactor. I didn’t get as much writing done as I’d have liked to (even though my Drafts folder is overflowing). My reading has been more sombre than usual too. Here’s starting the Valentine’s month with some link-love:
- ‘My strength is not for hurting‘: An anti-rape campaign targetted at men. (via Facebook, link courtesy Kiran Manral)
- ‘First Date Questionnaire: 30 Something Edition‘: A crazy-ass questionnaire from that old favorite Thought Catalog.
- ‘Why Men Need Marriage‘: Very, very preachy & judgmental (though not as much considering the writer is a pastor). (via Washington Post)
- ‘Can You Tell The Difference Between A Men’s Magazine And A Rapist?‘: I’ve never quite been able to reconcile pop culture’s permissiveness of porn with my fear of being labelled a prude. And now this article just makes me sad that I may have been right. (via Jezebel)
- ‘A Rant About Women‘: Women may get judged harsher than men. They’re also less inclined to take risks (of being wrong, of being caught, of looking foolish). This difference may be costing us more than we realize. (via Shirky, link courtesy Rehab Chougle & Phyrodite)
- ‘Why College isn’t really necessary for girls’ or ‘How to prove you’re an idiot’. (On Facebook, link courtesy Johann Matthai)
- You know how they say you should make a bonfire of the paraphernalia of a bad relationship? Instead, make some money off it by selling it off on Never Liked It Anyway.
You can catch the links as they come in and even post your own to the XX Factor Facebook Page.
- Spanx, Girl Gamers, Period Jokes & Relationship Trends
- Texting Etiquette, Gaslighting, Movember & Facebook As A Wingman
- Gender Stereotypes, Rape & What Women Mean
Posted on February 1, 2012, in Bookmarked, Ex-factor, Relationships, Seriously speaking, The Dating Game, Times, they are a-changing, Unholy Matrimony and tagged 30-somethings, Break up bonfire, Facebook, First dates, Jezebel, Johann Matthai, Kiran Manral, Men and marriage, Men's magazines, Never Liked It Anyway, Phyrodite, Pornography, Rapists, Rehab Chougle, Shirky, Thought Catalog, Turning 30, Washington Post. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.