Everyone Wants To Get Into My Wallet!
Posted by IdeaSmith
Late one night as I was driving down the city, I looked up at a huge billboard of Sushmita Sen, an advertisement for Kiah jewellery, which said,
You are the occasion
You are the celebration
I told him,
I really love that ad!
He smiled and said,
You would. It celebrates you, after all.
Earlier in the month, I wrote about my first experience with luxuriant self-indulgence, the retail therapy way. I wear my diamonds with pride, a pride that comes not exactly from their aesthetic value but from the knowledge that I earned the power to buy them for myself.
A few years ago, I wrote about the Superwoman. I don’t know whether to be happy or not that it’s turning out to be prophetic. Take a minute to think about my words..
I am the center of a marketing model titled “High income single decision maker”
I am the brief given to fashion houses when they design the new Prada suit
I am described as ‘Joan of Arc meets Helen of Troy’
We are indeed, the hot new consumer demographic. Urban women, financially self-sufficient with all the trappings of our successful professional status – the need for new status symbols combined with the ability to pay for them.
Successful men who earn well have been well tapped into as a market and are induced to spend on everything from their own selves (personal gadgets, cars), social settings (restaurants, pubs, sports activities) and all sorts of dating-related paraphernalia (presents for women, tokens of what makes them an ‘ideal partner’). What do their opposite numbers in our sex have?
We have shoes, clothes, bags, accessories, jewelery, make-up and personal grooming services. If the men-targeted products homed in on the traditional masculine need to be macho and an alpha male, we are being targeted for our vanity and need to be ‘the babe’.
Of course, the more complicated dynamics of women actually competing with each other in these stakes is well played out. What else do you think Bhala uski saadi meri saadi se safed kaisi is?
The more expensive products are obviously affordable only to a certain type of woman – she has a career, she’s ambitious and wants to be respected for her intelligence, she doesn’t want to stand in anyone’s shadow, she has a personality of her own. And hence diamonds, super-expensive shoes and clothes come with the messages that they respect your individuality, celebrate your independence and will take Visa as well as American Express.
Becky Bloomwood in the movie nails it on the head when she explains her addiction,
Because when I shop, it feels so pretty, so nice, so good! And then it doesn’t so I have to shop even more!
True to all successful marketing strategies, this one also gives us a taste of what we like and then leaves us begging for more. Shinier hair! Higher heels! Bigger (and smaller) bags! Cooler sunglasses! Brighter make-up! Lotions, creams, gels, powders, liquid liners, sticks, brushes, concealers, colorants, rinses, crayons, cakes, gloss, sequins, beads, rhinestones, denim, silk, linen, velvet….the list never ends.
So for all our gloss and gorgeousness, we are nothing more than the product of a very successful marketing program designed to relieve us our newly-minted paychecks. ‘Fabulous’ is the bait they use to lure us in and the looming bill at the end of the month is the hook.
It used to be about too many people wanting to get into my pants.
Now everyone wants to get into my wallet!!
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About IdeaSmithIdeaSmith is the digital doppelganger of Ramya Pandyan (intrepid train-traveller and frequent spouter of post-midnight rhymes and rants). As IdeaSmith she battles obscurity and slays boredom with her stories about men, books, digitalia and Mumbai. She performs live and also blogs, tweets, Instagrams, Facebooks, +G’s, Youtubes and Goodreads all as IdeaSmith. Ramya is a blogger, digital storyteller and spoken word performer. She also runs a forum for aspiring writers called Alphabet Sambar. Tweet-bomb her at @ideasmithy.
Posted on March 20, 2009, in Flying solo, Media Messages, Seriously speaking, Times, they are a-changing, Vanity Unfair and tagged Accessories, Advertisement, Ambition, American Express, Bags, Bead, Bills, Bright, Brush, Cake, Career, Celebration, Clothes, Colourant, Comedy, Concealer, Consumer, Crayon, Cream, Dating, Demographic, Denim, Diamond, Fabulous, Fashion, Financial, Financial independence, Gel, Girlfriend, Gloss, Hair, Heels, Helen of Troy, Heroine, Individuality, Intelligence, Jewellery, Joan of Arc, Kiah, Linen, Liquid liner, Lotion, Make-up, Marketer, Marketing, Money, Movie, Movies, Occasion, Partner, Personality, Powder, Power, Prada, Present, Purchasing power, Respect, Retail therapy, Rhinestone, Rinse, Sequin, Sex, Shadow, Shine, Shoes, Shopaholic, Shopping, Silk, Status symbol, Stick, Success, Sunglasses, Superwoman, Sushmita Sen, Token, Urban, Velvet, Visa, Wallet, Women bosses. Bookmark the permalink. 4 Comments.