These things never go away.
If there has ever been history, it will show even if you are in the same room.
Yes, very dramatic. And perhaps romantic. Heartening, even to some.
But reality seems to indicate otherwise. Attraction, like everything else, is impermanent. Or perhaps I’m only thinking of fancy and not real lust.
And yet, the novelty is so much a part of the attraction, the first time round…I often wonder what keeps couples together after years and years and years. Sure, there is the comfort and caring and real depth of a good relationship. But attraction?
And if you don’t stay a couple and meet several years and other people later, is it a given that things wouldn’t have changed? I don’t think so. People change, times change, tastes change too. So who knows, a re-union could be a real re-union…or just a history lesson. I’ll lay my chances on the latter.
A version is posted on Yahoo! Real Beauty.
Posted on October 1, 2007, in Ex-factor, Laws of Attraction, Relationships, Yahoo! and tagged Attraction, Caring, Comfort, Drama, Ex-, History, Lust, Nostalgia, Novelty, Relationship, Reunion, Romance. Bookmark the permalink. 4 Comments.