How I celebrated Women's day

It was just another day. Of course it was….was I expecting a red carpet and garlands? Yes, I know every day should be a celebration like Sushmita Sen says. A day like this is only symbolic. But well, what wrong with symbols? Symbols are reminders. And I remembered yesterday that the world is changing. Some women somewhere demanded a vote and years later they got it. Somewhere someone decided that education should be made available to everyone, irrespective of gender. We got that too. I am living the benefits of their struggles. I don’t claim to be driving the cause today. But by making use of the voice that I have today, maybe by making somebody think, it just is possible, I have helped move something. Didn’t someone say…”If one robin should be saved from dying, my life would not have been in vain”. Ah, well big thoughts. Suffice to say I’m so grateful, so very thankful to be alive in the world as it is today, where I can demand and reasonably expect that my voice will be heard.

On another note, Blank Noise Project has been a sucess. The organizers inform us that participants are flooding in. My mailbox has been flooded for the past two days with other participants sending in their links and their thoughts on this. I’ve never participated in anything like this, in the blogsphere or the real world…it was a thrilling experience. I’m still reading the posts that have been put up. Here’s my favorite one so far…because it goes beyond talking about the problem and offers some suggestions.

I put up my posts on the weekend since I knew it was going to be a killer week. Yesterday was so busy I almost forgot what day it was. Morning began with an unscheduled yoga class where my instructor made me laugh. Apparantly her 17-year old son has joined a gym, much to the astonishment of the instructor who knows that his mother is a proficient yoga teacher. According to the young man “I don’t like to sit in one place and say ‘Breathe in-breathe out!!” Ah well, kids today! Later during the day, his mother gets a call and Mr.Dude coolly announces that he is “in the hospital and the doctor is going to start surgery”. Turned out to be a painful corn on the foot which Dude didn’t bother informing family about. Independence is good. And it made me smile.

Only in the train when my cell flashed a missed call from my best friend did I realise it was Women’s day. Ah…what would I do without my lady Friday, my island of rest, my best friend? I don’t tell her how much she means to me but she understands. Just like I understand what she’s telling me from one missed call alert.

The best moment in my day came from the first lady in my life. A message said “Happy women’s day to the young lady who elevated me to motherhood:-)” Ma, anyplace you are, feels like home.

Just another day. But a very nice one.

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About IdeaSmith

IdeaSmith is the digital doppelganger of Ramya Pandyan (intrepid train-traveller and frequent spouter of post-midnight rhymes and rants). As IdeaSmith she battles obscurity and slays boredom with her stories about men, books, digitalia and Mumbai. She performs live and also blogs, tweets, Instagrams, Facebooks, +G’s, Youtubes and Goodreads all as IdeaSmith. Ramya is a blogger, digital storyteller and spoken word performer. She also runs a forum for aspiring writers called Alphabet Sambar. Tweet-bomb her at @ideasmithy.

Posted on March 8, 2006, in Hormone hangover, Times, they are a-changing and tagged . Bookmark the permalink. 5 Comments.

  1. Now a days feel utterly boring when i hear some common wishes like happy new year , happy bday etc. etc…(they are so common or I would say mechanical now, i feel they are almost without any meaning or emotion attached it with) but wish from ur mom ->”Happy women’s day to the young lady who elevated me to motherhood:-)” was splendid…cool..

    Cheers

  2. i for one do not see the point in celebrating something like ‘woman’s day’ – its another day. but really this post was so nice – the last bit. what would celebrating womanhood be if you did not remember your mom and your grandmother – the people without whom you would not be here.

  3. Just the existence of ‘Woman’s day’ symbolizes a sexist attitude and is extremely illogical, and people who support/celebrate it also portray a vein of similar thoughts! Woman’s day…just another day seeded by some fanatic illogical feminist!

  4. hello.. you know i didnt even know it was women’s day. Its kinda pointless. Its only celebrated by the women that don’t need it.

    So, what’s your main blog. Your profile has, like 11.

  5. first I admired you now, I admire your mom too.

    Wish I had read this post earlier I would have thought of wishing my mom too.

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